RIP Sharon Andre (Mom)

**jeffandre** · 01-31-2005

My mom passed away yesterday at 3:17 pm PST from lung cancer and various other complications, she was 67.

This may not be the most appropriate topic on this forum but I just wanted to let more of the world know about the wonderful person that shaped my life, as she raised me and my sister on her own. She was opiniated but felt strong in her opinions, and over the last 8 years I bonded with her incredibly well (I had gotten divorced and met a great woman, who helped me become a mature man, and my mom was very happy about that). I learned a lot from her in life, and now I find that I am still learning through her death. Thankfully I spent the last 8 years talking to her 2-3 times per week minimum, sometimes for an hour or more, and I saw her frequently as well. She lived a mile from the refinery and would come visit me for 30 minutes every so often, bringing me food and candy. I will love and miss her forever! Thanks for the great memories mom!!!

PS - I apologize ahead of time for this long off-topic thread , I hope it helps my pain though...

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**grtpmkn** · 01-31-2005

Don't feel bad at all, Jeff, for posting up about this. I lost my mom last March to stomach cancer. She was 57, never smoked, was very active (mountain biking, kayaking, motorcycling, antiquing, etc) so it sort of caught us off guard. I'm just glad that we were close and I got to enjoy her company for the first 35 years of my life. My biggest regret is that she didn't get to see my kids grow up (they were 4 and 6 at the time).

Anyway, if you need someone to talk with, feel free to PM me. For me, it has been pretty hard, but it's all of those positive memories I have that seem to help the most.

Scott

**F70t/a** · 01-31-2005

Sorry to hear she didn't make it after all jeff!! Just remember those good times and you will be ok. I'm here for ya bro

**Piet** · 01-31-2005

Jeff, My condolences....
My prayers are with you, and your family.

**mdprovee** · 01-31-2005

Jeff,

My prayers are with with.

Mike

**trapin** · 01-31-2005

Jeff....very sorry to hear about that. As long as you remember the lessons in life that she taught you, she'll always be with you. And don't feel nervous about posting this stuff in here. This is what this place is for....we're all friends. And it's natural for you to reach out to friends in times of crisis. We're here for ya.

Keep your chin up, kid. It's what Mom would want.

dennis68 · 01-31-2005

Hey Jeff, she's in a better place. Look out cause she can see it ALL now.

**colt zantop** · 01-31-2005

sorry to hear man. think of the good times, and that will help.

**protour_chevelle** · 01-31-2005

Sorry to hear Jeff, :(

Just try to keep your head held high

-Matt

**ProdigyCustoms** · 01-31-2005

Our condolences Jeff

**zbugger** · 01-31-2005

Jeff, she raised a good kid. She's not in any pain anymore. Remember that. If you ever need anything, you know you have us locals to help keep your chin up.

**Bill Howell** · 01-31-2005

Jeff,
I too am sorry to hear of your loss. My father-in-law had a close call two weeks ago with heart surgery but seems to be better now.
It is hard to lose those we love, but we must remember that we are all part of God's master plan and have to let go when He takes one home. Death is only hard on the ones left behind, and I am sure your mother would tell you she is ok if she could. After the battle she has endured the last several years, she is no longer suffering. Time heals all and talking about it with friends also helps. You and your family will be in our prayers.

**Matt** · 01-31-2005

I'm sorry to hear that man. She obviously left great memories, instilled strong character, and great impression, that's all any of us can ever hope for.

We are all keeping you both in our thoughts,
-Matt

**Larry Callahan** · 01-31-2005

Jeff, I am very sorry for your loss. It sounds like she was a great mom.

**DarkBuddha** · 01-31-2005

My sincerest condolences... there are no words appropriate for these occasions, but sadly it is all we can offer. I hope time brings you peace quickly.

**Steve1968LS2** · 01-31-2005

Sorry to hear Jeff, you have the condolenses and prayers of our family. So very sorry for your loss.

**OHCbird** · 01-31-2005

From one Jeff to another, I say great (not good) on you for making the effort to know her. You're a better man for it. My mom is the same way- she raised 4(+) of us.

My condolences, and remember all the positives you pointed out; they'll help you deal with this.

**68BNUT** · 01-31-2005

Jeff sorry to hear about that, Like someone posted already be glad you grew up and got to know her better than just the person who always says "because I said so!" Alot of people never get that chance.
condolences
Justin

**MrQuick** · 01-31-2005

Very Sorry about your loss, Gina and I are very sadened by the news, our condolences to you and your familly. If theres is anything we can do for you let us know. We are there for you....

**Martin71RS** · 02-01-2005

Jeff, my condolences to you and your family!
It sounds you had a great mom...just remember her that way...I can't imagine how a loss like that would feel (thank God)

take care,

Martin

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