I need help with a speech/toast

[69Nova]

Ok my brother is getting married on Saturday and I'm the best man. I think I kind know what I'm gonna talk about but I'm not really sure what the best man generaly talks about when he toast the bride and groom. Or how long should I go on for?

I think right now I'm gonna talk about how my brother has been great for me, someone to look up to and a great friend. And then from there I gess I'll probly talk about how Jackie(the bride) is kinda like a big sister to me.

Can anyone help me out with some ideas???

[fishtail8]

Something short and sweet can be easier for you to remember, deliver and sit down faster. Alot of peoplel write something that's wayyyy to long, then stumble through it due to it's length. Tell them how much you appreciate them being there for you, and look forward to good times in the future... Of course if you're slobbering drunk by the time you get up to speak... everything goes out the window... !!!!!... lol.. Good luck...

[Damn True]

The following was used by an Irish Priest at a wedding I attended in NYC in 1993. I've used it a number of times and I'm passing it on to you.


"Here's to a lifetime of lying, cheating, stealing and drinking;

A lifetime of lying in each others arms.
A lifetime of cheating death for one more day together.
A lifetime of stealing kisses (from each other).
And a lifetime of drinking deeply from the well of blessings bestowed upon you by the Lord."

[jy211]

as the last thing you say: Everyone raise your glass to toast Groom's name and bride's name, turn to him and say...Groom's name, take Bride's name hand in yours.....now place your hand on top of hers....cause this will be the LAST time you have the upper hand!

[Damn True]

Be careful with that kid of thing. Most people get the joke, but once in a while you will run into someone that takes offense at such comments. If that someone happens to be the brides mom...not cool.

[69Nova]

Thanks for the help guys. I'm gonna keep it short and to the point. I'm pretty good at talking infront of alot of people so I'm not gonna be nervous I just wanna make sure I do a good job.

as the last thing you say: Everyone raise your glass to toast Groom's name and bride's name, turn to him and say...Groom's name, take Bride's name hand in yours.....now place your hand on top of hers....cause this will be the LAST time you have the upper hand!

I think I'm gonna have to use that. It's too funny.

Thanks for the help and ideas. Keep em coming.

[BA.]

I gave one for my best friend and after some mention of our great friendship and a short funny tale, I felt it was important to mention how great the bride/groom are for each other, mentioned what a great woman she was, and of course I wished them a long, loving and healthy marriage.

[dws1216]

I like to start with something like this
Ladies and Gentleman, I would like to take this time to thank some very special people. Folks lets get a round of applause for the the bartenders working hard over there behind the bar.

Adjust or add to it as you see fit.

[mpozzi]

Have a couple of funny anecdotes about the couple. I think everyone has good ideas and go with what you feel is best. Have a "cheat sheet" with bullet points for stories or thoughts, say 'em, and then sit down. Keep it a happy occasion and have fun.

Cheers and congrats,
Mary Pozzi

[MrQuick]

watch Steve Steve Buscemi's speech in "the wedding singer". That should give you some ideas.

[sunkistcamaro]

I was just at a wedding and heard the worst speach ever! The best man drank to much and really screwed up because he was drunk, very drunk. His speach sounded like they were getting ready to split up! You could hear a pin drop, everyone was in SHOCK! I read the speach after he was done, it should have been great! Oh yah;The best man was my brother in-law.
My advice, dont drink to much till after the speach.

[69rs]

I have one question....If you're the "best man", why is she marrying him?
Grab a book of Irish blessings/toasts. You can find some good ones.